November can feel like one of those in-between months for date night. Halloween is over, fall activities wind down, and the holidays don’t officially kick off until the end of the month. It’s colder, the leaves are gone, and sometimes we even get an early snowstorm. So what do you do for a date night in November?

Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered! These November date ideas are perfect for chilly evenings, cozy weekends, and the Thanksgiving season. You’ll find a mix of creative at-home ideas, seasonal activities that fit this time of year, and even a few ways to get ready for the holidays together.

November Activities in the Davis County Area

Support Community Theatre

Live theatre makes for such a memorable date night. You get to share the experience, then talk about it together afterward. Whether you’re in the mood for something suspenseful, comedic, or inspiring, there’s always a show worth seeing in Davis County. This November, A Christmas Story, The Musical takes the Main Stage at CenterPoint Legacy Theatre mid-month, with Pride & Prejudice opening on their second stage later in November. At On Pitch Performing Arts, you can catch Little Shop of Horrors through mid-November, followed by Steel Magnolias opening soon after.

Check out our upcoming events page for future shows you can plan for date night, including holiday-themed productions starting toward the end of November and into.

Axe Throwing + Barbecue

This is a date idea I first shared a couple of years ago, but it’s worth repeating, and it’s fun any time of year! There’s just something about flannel and barbecue that feels especially cozy in November.

There’s something about plaid shirts, smoky barbecue, and a round of axe throwing that feels perfectly November. It’s fun, cozy, and a little adventurous all at once. Davis County has a couple of axe-throwing spots to choose from, and you’ll find plenty of BBQ joints nearby to round out the night. For more info on where to go, check out our full post on planning an axe-throwing and barbecue date in Davis County.

Visit a Bookstore

Late fall is the perfect time to cozy up with a good book, and it makes for a surprisingly fun date night, too! Many Late fall is the perfect season to wander the aisles of a bookstore together, pick out something new to read, and maybe even start a winter reading list as a couple. Barnes & Noble in Station Park and Layton are both great stops with plenty of books and games to explore. If you’d rather keep it local, try The Book Garden in Bountiful, Kaysville Bookstore, or Eborn Books in Layton Hills Mall. Find a cozy corner, sip something warm, and let the night slow down. We’ve put together even more bookstore date ideas here if you’d like to plan a full outing.

Soup and Soup Bowls

Nothing says November comfort quite like soup in a bread bowl. Stop by a local bakery like Parson’s, Dick’s, or Bowman’s to grab freshly baked soup bowls, then pair them with your favorite soup (homemade or takeout works just as well!). Light some candles, put on a podcast or soft music, and enjoy a cozy, flavorful dinner together. It’s simple, seasonal, and perfect for when you want a slower night in.

Hot Chocolate Date

There’s something romantic about wrapping your hands around a warm mug when the weather turns chilly. Hot cocoa and fresh cookies feel like the perfect fall and winter treat, and they make a sweet excuse to linger a little longer together. Try a local shop for a cozy night out, sip your cocoa while you drive around, and enjoy the crisp November air, or bring it home for a quiet evening after the kids go to bed. Click here for a list of the best hot cocoa spots in Davis County and some fun hot cocoa date ideas!

Gratitude Date

Celebrate the spirit of Thanksgiving with a date night centered around gratitude. Bundle up for a walk together and talk about the people, places, and moments you’re thankful for this year. Or spend the evening baking a simple treat, writing thank-you notes, and delivering them to friends or family who’ve made an impact on your life. You could also keep it just between the two of you. Put on some music, share a favorite dessert, and write heartfelt letters to each other. Exchange and read them aloud, then tuck them away as keepsakes to revisit in the future.

Friendsgiving Dinner

Gather your closest couple friends for a Friendsgiving celebration the week before Thanksgiving. You can host at home and make it a potluck so everyone brings a dish to share, or choose a favorite restaurant and enjoy the night out together. Add a little extra meaning by playing games, sharing the things you’re most grateful for this past year, and talking about what you’re looking forward to in the year ahead. It’s a fun way to connect with friends before the holiday hustle begins.

Holiday Gift Shopping

The holiday rush is coming, but getting a head start can turn stress into fun. Plan a date night dedicated to tackling your gift list together. Set your budget, make your lists, and block out a few hours to shop. Start with dinner at one of your favorite restaurants to fuel up, then dive into the stores (or even online browsing side by side). End the evening with a sweet treat, and set another date for wrapping everything up together. It will keep the holiday spirit going and turn a to-do into quality time.

Puzzle + Candlelight Night

When the evenings get longer, a puzzle date is the perfect way to slow down together. Pick out a seasonal puzzle, something fall or holiday-themed, and set it up at your table. Light a few candles, turn on soft music or a cozy movie in the background, and sip something warm while you work side by side. It’s simple, relaxing, and gives you plenty of time to talk and connect while your puzzle slowly comes together.

November might feel like a quieter month, but that’s what makes it so special for date nights. It’s the perfect time to slow down, soak up the cozy moments, and enjoy time together before the holiday rush begins. Whether you’re trying something new, leaning into the season of gratitude, or simply creating space to connect at home, these November date ideas are all about making memories together.